It’s that time a year again when we all are thinking about summer vacation. One thing I get asked a lot is if having special needs kids keeps us from going on vacation. Absolutely not! We still do family vacations regardless of our special needs twins. Even camping! And I’m not talking RV camping, I’m talking tent camping.
So how do we do it?
Well, we keep in mind our sons’ needs when choosing a vacation spot. For example, for places with larger crowds we may need to bring along his noise-canceling headphones or take a break throughout the day in an area away from noise and people. We keep in mind how long we are out and about on vacation.
Camping is great way to save money and have a fun and memorable family vacation. We started with a camping trip as our first-ever family vacation, and as a dry run for an actual big vacation. We stayed at the camp site for a weekend to try it out: it went well and the kids loved it. The only thing we overdid was packing too much stuff. But now I know for next time exactly what we need to bring camping with special needs twins
When we go camping, we need to get a tent site with electric for Alex’s nebulizer or any other medical equipment or machines. Alex sleeps cozy on an air mattress during camping trips because of his CP.
For great family-friendly camping spots, check online through the PA websites. Check out the Pennsylvania Department of Conservation and Natural Resources website for information on accessibility in Pennsylvania State Parks. The camping spot we had was handicap friendly and it didn’t cost any extra. We were even fairly close to the lake front.
Having a kid in a wheelchair makes going on vacation a real deal for planning; we have to make sure that travel destinations are handicap accessible. Luckily, many places do offer handicap accessible actives. Even beaches have handicap ramps down to the ocean.
One of the things you have to remember when planning a family vacation is simply to ask if you are not sure. Most people are understanding and friendly and will help you with accommodations. Some restaurants even offer a menu for people with food allergies.
When booking a hotel for vacation, keep in mind that many hotels will let kids under a certain age stay for free or discount and many hotels offer free breakfast. This will keep vacation cost down.
Now, for parents needing an adults-only vacation, look into respite care services or to family and friends to help watch your special needs child. It is always good to have a chance to charge your battery away from the kids, even if for a weekend. My husband and I have already gone on vacations for just the two of us to the Pocono Mountains, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and a bed and breakfast in Gettysburg. It is a nice experience to get away from your kids and the annoying sound of an alarm clock from time to time. When my husband and I get away just the two of us on vacation, we will pick up brochures and even take a look around at the place and see if our kids would love to visit in the future. Yet again, planning ahead for a family vacation.
Check back soon and I will have more tips and tricks for camping with special needs kids. There are so many more details to share, from keeping your kids in their tents and not going astray, to how to take your special needs child fishing. Yep, we have even done family fishing trips with Alex in his wheelchair! All you need to do is be a little creative, plan and be brave enough to go out on your family adventure. Have lots of fun with the family this summer and go somewhere you have always wanted to go. Be adventurous and have fun.
Trish Schaeffer is a mom of three boys—two with special needs—and a blogger for Central Penn Parent. Follow her at www.centralpennparent.com/A-Loving-Journey. You can follow Trish on Twitter @Alovingjourney and on her Facebook group A Loving Journey-Parents of special needs kids.