Recent Articles from Tashia James
My son’s friends moved into a safe space.
He asked whether his friends could move into our house for an extended period. My initial response was, 'Absolutely not! No.'
Backing away from helicopter parenting
"My mom needs a boyfriend or a new hobby!" I heard The Boy shout at the top of his lungs when my sister and niece visited us a few weeks ago
Steady steps toward our college goals
My son, The Boy, and I began the summer with lofty goals. Some of our plans have been successful, and others disappeared from our schedules as we established a new routine.
Planning a fun summer with an eye on college
As the days grow longer and school breaks begin, I anticipate the joys and challenges of parenting during the summer months.
Letting go: One year of high school already gone
The Boy, my son, has only a few weeks left in his freshman year of high school, and I don’t understand how time has moved so quickly!
Helping your child mend a broken heart
As kids grow up, we cannot always protect them. Heartbreak after a relationship is one of those experiences.
Teenagers still need to play
Through play, children make sense of the world around them, and through new experiences, they connect something they don’t understand to something they already know.
Kids carry baggage when they shuttle between parent households
The Boy’s father and I have not always had a great co-parenting relationship. We would exchange our son without exchanging more than five words.
Your kids are talking: Stop and listen
In a blink of an eye, our babies grow into toddlers, our toddlers turn into little people with minds of their own, and all too quickly those little people stand taller than you.
Let grandparents spoil the kids!
Growing up, I was surrounded by a huge extended family of aunts, uncles, and way too many cousins to count.
Letting your kids see you cry
I can only remember my mother crying twice, and they are vivid memories. They were moments when she let her guard down, when her emotions were too great to contain, and when her heart was broken.
Putting a stop to unacceptable behavior
Disrespectful behavior often comes down to children having poor problem-solving skills and a lack of knowledge about how to express themselves as they mature.